20 Tips From a Divorced Man After 16 Years of Marriage

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7. NEVER BLAME YOUR WIFE IF YOU GET FRUSTRATED OR ANGRY AT HER (7 OF 20)

7. NEVER BLAME YOUR WIFE IF YOU GET FRUSTRATED OR ANGRY AT HER (7 OF 20)

It is only because it is triggering something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your responsibility. When you feel those feelings take time to get present and to look within and understand what it is inside of YOU that is asking to be healed. You were attracted to this woman because she was the person best suited to trigger all of your childhood wounds in the most painful way so that you could heal them… when you heal yourself, you will no longer be triggered by her, and you will wonder why you ever were.